Be A Financially Free Woman
Win At Everything: It’s EASY to be your
own CFO
There is no area of your life that doesn’t
have financial implications.
Most people want financial freedom. What does
that mean to you? For many, being rich means being safe.
We all need money to meet our daily requirements for
food, clothing and shelter. How much money do YOU need?
Do you have a figure in mind? $100K? $500K? $1,000,000?
There is no right or wrong answer. What you need is right
for you. How much you need is influenced by several
factors: your lifestyle, responsibilities, personality,
values, personal circumstances, spending habits and
emotions and behaviours around money. The foundation for
gaining more wealth, power and independence in all
aspects of our lives is through education. We’ve all
heard the phrase, “Knowledge is power.” The simple fact
is that you need to become involved in learning about how
to take care of yourself financially. It’s not about
being perfect. You can learn from your struggles and
mistakes. Don’t get overwhelmed by the task at hand.
Learning can be broken up into smaller steps. There are
many ways to do this. Read on.
What’s holding you back? The only person holding
you back is YOU. The choices you make about your money
say everything about your values and belief systems. You
need to acknowledge your behaviour around money. Ignoring
your credit card bills won’t help your credit card rating
and it won’t eliminate your debt. If you’re carrying
credit card debt, call your credit card company and
negotiate a lower rate. Did you know you could do this?
It works. The reason the institution will give you a
lower rate is because they can. If the first person you
speak to tells you this isn’t possible, ask for the
manager. Remember to ask nicely (don’t become
aggressive). “I’m currently paying 15% interest on my
credit card. Could you lower it to 8%? I’ve been your
client for a long time. I really would appreciate it if
you could lower the interest rate a couple of percentage
points. I’d appreciate anything you could do for me.” Be
convincing, be persistent. You will be successful. They
will do it for you because they can. Small steps in the
right direction will add up to huge gains for you. This
is all part of problem-solving for YOU.
Here’s another debt reducing strategy. Figure
out how much debt you have on each credit card. Look at
the minimums you must pay each month. Prioritize which
card has the highest debt and commit yourself to paying
this card off first.
Many people know they need to make more money to
reach their financial goals. Before you think about how
to make more money, it’s important to define what your
goals are.
Why do you need more money? Will it help you buy
your dream house, pay for a vacation, help your children
get a good education? Be clear on what is you want. What
is the time frame you want to make this happen in? Six
months? One year? Five years?
If you’re single, it’s simply a case of sitting
down and writing out what it is you want to do in your
life and when. If you’re a parent or spouse, it’s a good
idea to sit down with your family and have a discussion
about what your dreams are. This can be enjoyable and
fun. Everyone should have a say about what they want and
the opportunity to listen to one another. Talking about
what you want as a family will help everyone be clear on
what you’re doing and why. You live with your family, why
not work together to achieve your goals? Communication is
an excellent starting point. Knowing the map of life has
direction will help you keep on track. One idea that
helps a lot of people and allows you to be as creative as
you want is to create a vision board that represents your
goals. It’s easy and fun to do. Cut out pictures from
magazines of things you want to buy, places you’d like to
visit, activities you’d like to do…create your ideal life
in pictures. Glue these pictures onto a board. Keep the
board in a place where you can look at it. Clarity around
what you want helps you understand why you’re working,
why you’re saving your money and why you’re investing.
Focus on the outcomes of your efforts and you will move
closer to achieving your goals
Making more money is possible! Feeling inspired
and following your passion is what many of us want in our
lives. It’s great when we can find or create jobs in the
areas that give us joy. Ask yourself, what are your
passions? What do you love doing? What makes you happy?
You can make money from things you are passionate about,
things that you are interested in, things that make you
happy. Your passion and love of something can bring joy
and value to others. Consider Heather Reisman, CEO of the
huge and hugely influential enterprise Indigo and
Chapters Books. She turned her passion for reading books
into one of the largest bookstore chains in
North America. Her recommended
book choices influence buying decisions. Heather always
believed books and stories should be shared with
children. She had the dream that children could love
books as much as she did and continues to do. Today,
Heather is known for filling vacant bookshelves in
schools with books and she is a great philanthropist in
this way. Her story is inspiring because it proves we can
all look into ourselves and our hearts to see what we
love and what we can share with others. You’d be
surprised at how your passions, interests and natural
skills and talents can help you develop business ideas
that allow you to enjoy your work and to profit,
also.
It doesn’t matter what culture you are from or
what country you live in. The female experience is a
universal one. As women, we take care of the loved ones
in our lives.
The needs of our loved ones is a very deep
concern for us and we do very well at meeting others’
need. We often put ourselves at the bottom of our list of
priorities. At some point in your life, you will be
solely responsible for making financial decisions about
yourself.
Are you ready? Did you know that women need more money than men
do? One compelling reason to prove this statement is that we
live longer. Are you sure you won’t outlive your money? Our
schools don’t incorporate the business elements of making
money, saving and investing. No one cares more about your
financial success than you do. So it’s up to you to take
control. When you learn and educate yourself about a subject,
you become better informed of your options and you can make the
best decisions for yourself. With a better level of knowledge
and confidence in your decision-making skills, you raise your
self-esteem and your belief in yourself. You have the brains,
the talent and the ability to be your own CFO. It’s time to
take action and translate your dreams into reality.
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